Watching porn with your significant other can be an interesting exercise in communication and sex education. If the thought of viewing porn with your significant other turns you on so much, but you are not yet in a position in your relationship where discussing your sexual fantasies with your partner is something you’re comfortable doing, broaching the subject of watching porn with them can take a bit of extra tact and skill. Here are some basic tips to ensure your porn sessions with your girlfriend go as smoothly as possible.

Women love to talk about sex and often love to talk about their sexual experiences. However, when talking about porn, women can get very defensive and almost combative. It’s important that your girlfriend understands that watching porn isn’t condoning anything or choosing to act a certain way. In fact, if she’s a real porn fan, she probably already knows that watching it doesn’t necessarily mean that she is going to act that way. So an easy conversation to start is: How do you feel about watching pornography?

Some couples watch porn together as a couple. This may sound like the better option, because it doesn’t require one person to “spoil” the other by telling him what he wants to know. If this is the case, be sure to bring up the topic in a non-threatening way, like by asking her what movies she likes and how much she likes certain performers. Don’t say something like “You shouldn’t watch porn together if…” and then take down the list of what you want to talk about. By being honest and real about it, your partner may be more open to hearing what you have to say.

However, some couples view porn as a means of foreplay and/or intimacy. If this is the case with you and your partner, be prepared to explain your pornography-viewing relationship to your partner. The easiest way to do this is to simply mention that you like watching certain types of pornography. For example, if you often watch porn during sex, talk about it. You may be surprised at how well your partner will respond to you opening up his/her heart to such naughty acts.

There are also many couples who use porn as a way of introducing more “gentle” sex into their relationship. There are actually studies out there that indicate that watching porn can help make love more passionate and enjoyable. As a result, many couples turn to porn during a “making love” session to add a new degree of passion and to help make their sexual relationship more experimental and adventurous. Of course, not every young couple wants to incorporate porn into the making love equation. If your partner doesn’t want to watch porn during sex or if you think porn is too “egotistic”, there are plenty of other ways to make love without using erotica.

Instead of Dr. Jekyll’s “phia” guide, try something a little out of the ordinary. Instead of watching pornography with your partner, why not spice things up by watching romantic movies? These can lead to a very intimate, passionate, and memorable sexual experience for the two of you. Instead of focusing on your enjoyment of the action (porn does this on a much larger scale), focus on the feelings of romance and lust between your partners. If you’re watching porn, try not to focus on how much or how little you’re enjoying it. By doing this, you will likely miss out on the romance between the two of you and your partner will feel unfulfilled and unsatisfied with the action.

Another idea is to pair watching porn with some sort of interuption. In other words, have your significant other read erotic fiction or spend some time in a library or bookstore reading erotic literature. The act of being together while exploring sexuality together can serve as an intimate exploration of fantasies and kinky behavior. Some couples also turn to massage or foot massages after watching porn because the act of touching stimulates the imagination and erotica greatly.

The act of being alone together while exploring sexual fantasies is one of the best ways to deepen and enrich your relationship. Porn can be an avenue for exploring the fantasies that are already present in your relationship. It can also be a way to begin to explore some new ones that you might not have considered of before. It can open up a conversation between the two of you that you wouldn’t have otherwise had. By following these tips, you can ensure the health and happiness of your relationship and allow your partner to experience greater fulfillment from their own sexual desires.

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